PLASTIC IS A HUMAN HEALTH ISSUE

Plastic seems to be everywhere these days and while we’ve come to normalize it, research has actually found it’s a huge health concern. 

What’s so bad about plastic?

“Humans are being exposed to both plastic particles and chemical additives being released from the plastic debris of consumer society. This material is fragmenting, leaching and spreading throughout the biosphere, including indoor and outdoor air, soil, and water systems.”

https://pubs.acs.org/doi/full/10.1021/acs.est.6b02569

We all know the big story about why plastic is bad – it doesn’t break down which means more waste on Earth, but the story is actually so much worse than that. Not only does plastic cause dangerous waste (insert a poor sea turtle stuck in plastic here), it literally poisons the environment around us.

•PLASTIC IS A HUMAN HEALTH ISSUE•

Exposure to harmful chemicals during manufacturing, leaching in the stored food items while using plastic packages or chewing of plastic teethers and toys by children are linked with severe adverse health outcomes such as cancers, birth defects, impaired immunity, endocrine disruption, developmental and reproductive effects etc.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3299092/#idm140193968392208title

“Researchers concluded that women who had high levels of BPA in their blood were at significantly increased risk of miscarriage compared to women with the lowest levels.”

https://greenmamalife.com/prevent-miscarriage-by-avoiding-these-things-in-your-home/

The FDA also now recommends to avoid using plastic bottles for infants because the bottle leaches chemicals into the milk.

There are too many adverse affects of plastic that we all must become a plastic-free, especially in our homes.

Ok, That’s A Lot Of Info… What can we do about it?

Our job is to vote with our money. We have to scream “NO TO PLASTIC” by not throwing a single cent in its direction. We have to donate, gift, and recycle the plastic in our homes. We have to limit what plastic is in our lives and lead the way for others on a path of saying no to plastic.

I know – “I already own it so what’s the harm of keeping it,” (you know, other than the literal side effects to your health) but hear me out. Others see us carry on using plastic in our lives and feel validated in continuing to use and buy plastic. Just make the statement “I am going plastic-free” and watch everyone around you get much more cautious and considerate of their plastic usage.

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So, you’re trying to cut down on plastic but where to start?

Ok, so you’re ready to start taking steps to ditch plastic- awesome! It can be overwhelming at first as so many things that are considered daily use necessities are made of plastic, but there are so many aesthetic and healthier options you can switch to!

Check Your Fabrics

The sneakiest of plastics and one of the most damaging is plastic fabrics, also referred to as polyester, nylon, and acrylic. These are the most damaging to our health (because of their vicinity to our skin) as well as to the environment because of microplastics shedding from the fabric into waterways and the air.

“Polyester, nylon, acrylic, and other synthetic fibers — all of which are forms of plastic — are now about 60 percent of the material that makes up our clothes worldwide.”

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vox.com/platform/amp/the-goods/2018/9/19/17800654/clothes-plastic-pollution-polyester-washing-machine

The healthiest and most sustainable options are organic cotton, hemp, and bamboo clothing. For more budget friendly options try second hand cotton clothing!

No More Plastic Water Bottles

Ok, I’m sure you’ve heard this one on repeat, but say you are on gross water (seriously don’t drink tap water), you might feel inclined to buy a plastic bottle or jug of water, but there are much better options. The Berkey water filter is a lifesaver, literally. It provides a zero-waste option for fresh, clean water. You could even pop filthy side-of-the-road water in there and get delicious drinking water. Invest in a Berkey y’all.

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Bye Bye Microplastics 

That face wash, body scrub, whatever it is, never buy it again. The micro scrub elements are actually just plastic. Try a small business glass contained face wash or a DIY bar soap instead!

Upgrade Your Kitchen Storage

That plastic wrap is totally useless. You may feel like you’re keeping germs out of your food, but that’s just how the plastic wrap marketers want you to feel. Choose a plastic-free option such as a cloth cover or beeswax cover which are just as effective. When storing your food, avoid toxic chemicals leaching into your food by storing it in glass or metal storage containers rather than plastic.

Little by little we can escape the grasp of plastic, creating a healthier life and influencing others to stop investing in plastic. Remember, the more money we put towards plastic the more we encourage big businesses to create it!

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Prevent Miscarriage: Avoid These Daily Use Items

Miscarriages are heartbreaking. Planned or not planned, you still experience a loss. Expecting a baby changes how you look at everything, so when you lose a baby, your whole world seems to fall apart. I personally experienced two early miscarriages often referred to as a “chemical pregnancies” or “not sticky pregnancies.” It’s so hard. I had everything I thought my future would be ripped away from me twice. Because of these losses, I dove into research trying to make sense of my loss. I stumbled upon some research that I had never heard of and started learning about what in our environments can cause miscarriages.

“About 1/3 to 1/2 of all pregnancies end in miscarriage before a woman misses a menstrual period or even knows she is pregnant. About 10 to 20% of women who know they are pregnant will miscarry.”

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/9688-miscarriage

Please note this information is in no way intended to shame anyone. We can only know what we’ve been made aware of and do our best with that information. My hope for this article is that it helps future mamas avoid the heart ache of a miscarriage. Be aware everyone deals with loss differently and my way of coping with the emotions is research.

The medical field is quick to blame women for their infertility using terms like “incompetent cervix” and “hormonal abnormalities,” but fail to note why we may be experiencing these things. I call BS. WOMEN ARE NOT AT FAULT FOR MISCARRIAGES OR INFERTILITY. The toxic environment and products we are being pushed to use are the cause.

“In 2011, University of California at San Francisco (UCSF) researcher Tracey Woodruff and colleagues reported finding traces of dozens of harmful chemicals in 99 percent or more of the 268 pregnant women whose urine they analyzed; among them were organochlorine pesticides, perchlorate, phthalates and cancer-causing compounds found in vehicle exhaust and smoke.”

https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/environmental-toxins-are-seen-as-posing-risks-during-pregnancy/2018/08/03/770fab98-7643-11e8-9780-b1dd6a09b549_story.html

It’s important to understand how genetics, illness, and our environment all interact to affect how we function. The key to the interactions is epigenetics. Once we are conceived, our genes are set in place. However, our genes can be turned on or off at any point in our life (or in utero).  Epigenetics is how our genes are expressed and gene expression can be altered by our environment. You can have no hormonal imbalances or family history of infertility but then be exposed to certain chemicals that will cause infertility (whether a result of epigenetics or toxic abortion).

Epigenetics is the study of changes in organisms caused by modification of gene expression rather than alteration of the genetic code itself.

Toxic abortion is a medical phenomenon of spontaneous abortion, miscarriage, or stillbirth caused by toxins in the environment of the mother during pregnancy, especially as caused by toxic environmental pollutants.

Chlorinated Water

A pregnant woman with a water bottle in hand is supposed to be a picture of health. We believe we’re doing right by our babies by staying hydrated, yet we are not being told of the risks that come with the treated water and water bottles.

“Drinking five or more glasses of cold tap water per day could increase the risk of miscarriage to women in their first trimester, according to a large-scale study of chlorinated drinking water by California state researchers.”

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1998-feb-10-mn-17476-story.html

Chlorine is linked to a number of health issues such as cancer, asthma, and skin damage, yet it is used to treat water. Chlorine is a toxin in the body and can cause toxic abortion.

Makeup and Other Beauty Products

“Leading up to and during pregnancy, women are told to avoid alcohol and cigarettes, to make sure they get enough folate and omega-3 fatty acids, and to get adequate sleep and exercise. Most are told little or nothing about reducing their exposure to chemicals despite evidence suggesting that ingredients in plastics, vehicle exhaust and cosmetics additives can have profound impacts on babies’ health.”

https://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/environmental-toxins-are-seen-as-posing-risks-during-pregnancy/2018/08/03/770fab98-7643-11e8-9780-b1dd6a09b549_story.html

“Although most chemicals in cosmetics pose little or no risk, some have been linked to serious health problems, including cancer, reproductive and neurological harm, and developmental delays. Cosmetic chemicals enter the body through the skin, inhalation, ingestion and internal use, and pose the same risks as food chemicals.[18] In addition to the risks posed by intentionally added ingredients, cosmetics can be contaminated with heavy metals, including arsenic, cadmium, lead, mercury and nickel.”

Top Toxic Beauty Ingredients:

  • Formaldehyde (Including Paraformaldehyde, Methylene Glycol, Quaternium 15)
    • “Exposure to formaldehyde has been linked to higher risk of congenital anomalies, low birth weight, and premature birth. Higher miscarriage rate has also been reported in several previous studies performed in various groups of women.” (See here).
  • Mercury
    • “Studies have shown that heavy metals like lead (Pb), cadmium (Cd), and mercury (Hg) have toxic effects on reproductive outcome and are also associated with miscarriages.” (See Here)
  • Phthalates
    • “Women with the highest concentrations of a type of phthalate called di-(2-ethylhexyl) phthalate, or DEHP, were 60% more likely to lose a pregnancy prior to 20 weeks than those with the lowest concentrations, the study found.” (See here).
    • “researchers found that those with the greatest urinary concentrations of monoethyl phthalate (MEP)—a type of phthalate commonly found in personal care products such as fragrances and cosmetics—had twice the risk of excessive weight gain during pregnancy than those with the lowest concentrations. Those with the highest mid-pregnancy MEP concentrations also had a seven-fold higher odds of impaired glucose tolerance (higher-than-normal blood glucose levels) in mid-pregnancy than women with the lowest concentrations” (See here).
  • Parabens
    • While I have not located research directly linking parabens to miscarriage (because no studies have been conducted), research has clarified parabens are absorbed through the skin and passed to the baby and have negative effect on mom and baby. One study found parabens would alter a child’s epigenetics (aka the turning on or off of certain genes) to be less satiated after a meal. 
    • “positive correlation between the concentrations of butylparaben in the mothers’ urine and a higher body-mass index of their children — particularly of the daughters — until their eighth birthday.” (See here).
  • PFAS (per- and polyfluoroalkyl)
    • “The study estimated a nearly 80% to 120% increased risk for miscarriage in women with the highest level of two common PFAS compounds, compared with those in the cohort with the lowest PFAS levels.” (See here).
  • M- and O-phenylenediamine (in hair dye)
    • A known carcinogen (cancer causing) shown to absorb through the scalp. While studies are very limited, hair dye is associated with increased risk of miscarriage.
    • “Hair stylists, who’ve spent many years being in daily contact with hair dye chemicals, do appear to have a slightly higher risk of having a miscarriage. This is thought to be due to regular contact with chemicals in dyes called teratogens, which can cause birth defects and increase the risk of miscarriage.” (See here).

Plastic (BPA and Phthalates)

“Researchers concluded that women who had high levels of BPA in their blood were at significantly increased risk of miscarriage compared to women with the lowest levels.”

https://www.cnn.com/2013/10/15/health/bpa-miscarriage-phthalates-fertility/index.html

Unless plastics or metal note that they are BPA free, you can assume they contain BPA. 

See above for the research on phthalates.

How To Avoid These Toxins

Chlorinated Water

Berkey filter
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I talk to mamas all the time who are having trouble getting pregnant and recommend the berkey! We tried for over a year to get pregnant with our second and within two months of switching to drinking berkey only filtered water. I got pregnant and brought our second child earth side nine months later!

The Black Berkey Filter’s performance can be summarized as follows:

Viruses: >99.999% Exceeds Purification Standard (Log 4): MS2 Coliphage – Fr Coliphage

Pathogenic Bacteria Surrogate: >99.9999% Exceeds purification standards (Log 6): Raoutella terrigen

trihalomethanes: Removed to >99.8% (Below Lab Detectable Limits): Bromodichloromethane – Bromoform – Chloroform – Dibromochloromethan

Inorganic Minerals: Removed to Below Lab Detectable Limits: Chlorine Residual (Total Residual Chlorine

Volatile Organic Compounds (VOC): Removed to Below Laboratory Detectable Limits

Heavy Metals: Aluminum, Antimony, Barium, Cadmium, Chromium, Cobalt, Copper, Hexavalent Chromium (Chromium 6), Lead, Mercury, Molybdenum, Nickel, Vanadium

Also removes or reduces: Arsenic, MBAS, Nitrites, Selenium, Thallium, Rust, Silt and Sediment, Turbidity, Foul Tastes and Odors

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Other Options

You can also remove chlorine from your water by leaving it in an open container at room temperature for a few days, using a UV light, or boiling your water for 20+ minutes.

Chemicals in Daily products

  • Use glass or bamboo rather than plastic.
  • Buy organic beauty products marked paraben and formaldehyde free.
  • Eat fresh – garden or buy fresh from the farmers market rather than packaged.
  • When buying packaged foods, check that containers are BPA free (this includes canned food).
  • For fabric, (clothes, curtains, sheets, etc.) skip the polyester and buy organic cotton or bamboo.
    • “Is polyester toxic? So, the straight forward answer is: yes. Polyester is a synthetic material which has many toxic chemicals embedded in it. … Also, if you wear synthetic clothes, your body heat also releases these chemicals into the air and the chemicals are absorbed by your skin.” https://www.thehouseofpillows.eu/polyester-shouldnt-be-in-your-bed-blog/
    • Organic Cotton Home Products
  • Organic Cotton Clothing
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Are there any other toxins that need to be avoided during pregnancy that I haven’t mentioned? Has your medical provider ever mentioned these dangers? Any tips for other mamas and future mamas?

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A Natural Mamas Guide to Postpartum Healing & Recovery

     Being a new mom and experiencing postpartum was, and is, one of the strangest and most difficult transitions I have ever experienced. As someone already familiar with the world of parenting and childbirth due to my education (masters degree in infant and toddler mental health and 8 years as an infant and toddler teacher), I thought I had some slight idea of what postpartum would look like. Oh, how wrong I was. Most likely, your body will look nothing like your pre-pregnancy body and really it shouldn’t. After all, you just created another human. It takes a toll on your body. From the fun and oh so stylish adult diapers to the roller coaster of emotions, postpartum can be a challenging and life altering experience.

      Having a home birth with my first, I had a supportive group of midwives to guide me and attended monthly childbirth classes. We discussed the process and what to expect regularly. Regardless of the support and education, there were things I just had no clue about, especially regarding the postpartum body. First off, I felt like I had been hit by a car after birth. Every muscle in my body ached and I couldn’t walk unassisted for a few days. To be fair, I had an unusually long labor, 75 hours, with around 7 hours of pushing, but I had no idea I would be so physically exhausted and aching after birth. I knew birth was hard and would be painful in its own regard, but I didn’t realize the residual pain it would cause, and not just in my nether regions. Pregnancy and birth completely changed my body. Everything looked and felt different. Fluids were coming out of literally everywhere. I would wake up drenched in sweat, breast milk and other fun fluids everyday for weeks. (Apparently heavy sweating is a postpartum thing?!). I didn’t recognize myself or my emotions. I would swing quickly from one mood to the next even though I had some lovely bliss hormones from meeting my new baby. Postpartum is different for everyone, but if no one shares what really happens, how can any of us really prepare for this crazy time? I had endless numbers of people attempt to tell me what to expect from the baby, but no one told me I’d be in diapers icing my nether regions for a week or so.

    Thankfully, my midwives, tips I picked up from other moms, and my own research helped me to make it through postpartum and heal my body. After what felt like endless months, I found my balance and my identity as a mother. I began to feel healthy and whole again. As I prepare to bring my second child earthside, I’ve decided to compile a list of helpful tips for postpartum to make the transition less dramatic and easier for myself and hopefully for other mamas who face the transformative time of postpartum. 

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Magnesium and Zinc Supplements

A few months into postpartum, I found myself still struggling with the baby blues and mood swings. I struggled to regulate my emotions. Looking for solutions, I took to the internet and dived into the research. I was so thankful to have actually found somewhat of a solution. It turns out, depression or depressive symptoms can actually be a symptom of magnesium deficiency. I even heard a few other moms mention it helped them during their postpartum period. I decided to try it out and within a day I found it easier to enjoy daily living and not so hard to regulate my emotions.

“Magnesium deficiency could cause abundant psychiatric symptoms including depression, behavior disturbances, headaches, generalized tonic-clonic as well as focal seizures, vertigo, tremors, irritability and psychotic behavior”

“In pregnancy, the fetus and placenta absorb huge amounts of nutrients particularly magnesium from the mother; this depletion of magnesium with not enough intake of magnesium by the mother is hypothesized to be the cause of postpartum depression.”

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3430492

Although I personally did not try zinc supplements during my postpartum time with my first, I plan to try it with my second. Similar to magnesium, this mineral may play a key role on postpartum mood disorders.

“Zinc as a trace element has the second highest concentration of all transition metals in the brain, and its deficiency is associated with behavioral disturbances. Lower zinc blood concentration was found in women with postpartum depression.” 

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3430492

Herbs

Herbs have endless medical and healing properties and are a great resource for healing during postpartum. From sitz baths to teas, herbs can play a key role in healing after giving birth.

For a sitz bath or peri bottle to promote healing after birth, there are some great recipes of natural herbs to prevent infection, soothe pain, and speed up healing. My favorite recipe is from Wellness Mama:

Ingredients:

1/4 cup Comfrey Leaf

1/2 cup Lavender Flowers

1/4 cup Plantain Leaf

1/2 cup Red Raspberry Leaf

1/4 cup Yarrow Flower

1/4 cup Calendula Flowers

1/4 cup Shepherd’s Purse

1/4 cup Uva Ursi Leaf

1/4 cup Sea Salt or Epsom Salt

You can find a premade sitz herb mix here.

If you are interested in a calming cup of tea rather than a soak, there are a few great options that will help you heal and recover.

Red Raspberry Leaf Tea

Red raspberry leaf tea strengthens the uterus, helps it to return to it’s pre-baby size, and eases postpartum cramping pain.

Chamomile Tea

Chamomile tea regulates digestion and promotes calming relaxation to ease anxiety and promote better sleep.

Ginger Tea

Ginger tea promotes breast milk production, relieves nausea, and reduces stomach cramps.

Nettle Leaf Tea

Nettle leaf tea helps restore iron levels, calms the body, and boosts breast milk supply. It also replenishes the body because it is a great source of vitamin A, vitamin C, iron, calcium, magnesium, and potassium.

Sunshine

Even if this seems like common sense, it needs to be said. Getting outside during the postpartum period is pretty low on any mamas priority list, but it’s necessary for you and baby. The sunshine will replenish your Vitamin D, as well as babies, and regulate both of your hormones, especially sleep hormones. The more natural light baby gets, the more likely they’ll jump on a day/night sleep schedule and you’ll all get more sleep. Not to mention, the awesome happy hormones the sunshine will help you release.

“The light-induced effects of serotonin are triggered by sunlight that goes in through the eye. Sunlight cues special areas in the retina, which triggers the release of serotonin.”

https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/benefits-sunlight#mental-health

Support & More Support

As much as you may think you will not need support during postpartum (me thinking i could be  a super mom), you WILL need support. If you don’t have family or friends available to help, try to set aside money or request as a gift from your baby shower practical support like a maid or food service. Enlist those who are willing to help with the daily duties, not the baby, while you recover and bond with your new baby. Although I didn’t really want my mother to be present after having my daughter so I could enjoy my new time as a parent, I actually ended up being really thankful she did show up. She was happy to help with the grunt work like laundry, dishes, and walking the dog while I focused on my new role of being a mom. Also if possible, have your partner take off as much time as possible. You’ll both want to be present for these new days and learning together what works makes you feel more like a team.

Postpartum, or the fourth trimester, is a substantial time in your new experience as mama and while no one can predict how it will go, it is helpful to have natural healing remedies on hand to face any challenges that may arise as well as ease the basic aches and pains that come with giving birth.

Please note I am not a medical professional and this information should not be substituted for medical advice.

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Growing Your Family: Books To Ease The Transition For Your Older Child

Growing your family is beautiful. (Congratulations by the way). For little kids, expecting a new sibling can be a time of excitement, confusion, and concern. One way to help your child process these emotions and gain more understanding around the changes in their life is story telling. Relevant story books can help children process the big changes in their life and even become more excited about the new baby!

When I became pregnant with my second child, my husband and I knew it was important we help our daughter transition into being a big sister. We put a big focus on how exciting a little sibling would be and how important her role is as a big sister. We began reading books about being a big sibling every day as the end of my pregnancy neared and sure enough, our first child was excited and proud to become a big sister! Even more heartwarming, big sister now loves to “read” the sibling books to her baby sister.

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Picture books are an important source of new language, concepts, and lessons for young children.

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Mommy’s Magic Within- A Book For Big Siblings

I wrote this book after seeing there was a lack of books explaining pregnancy to kids in a fun way! This books talks about how mommy’s are magic and how sometimes they might not feel well while growing a baby but it’s worth adding another amazing person to the family!

Mummy, What’s In Your Tummy?

This book is adorable! It’s fun and silly from the toddler’s point of view of what might be happening in mom’s growing tummy!

Hello In There! A Big Sister’s Book of Waiting

One of my favorite big sibling books, this book helps your daughter connect and get excited with the little one in your tummy! It was our daughter’s favorite!

You Were The First

A very sweet book to remind your first child they are still loved and important!

Little Dragon and the New Baby

This book adds a fun twist to typical big sibling books since it’s about a dragon getting a new sibling! This book addresses the emotions of jealousy or avoidance a big sibling might feel when expecting a new baby in a fun and gentle way.

There are many little ways to enlarge your world. Love of books is the best of all.

Jacqueline Kennedy

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It’s Not Gentle Parenting

It’s not gentle parenting

It’s just love

Without conditions, sorrow, and intentional hurt

It’s not gentle parenting 

It’s parenting 

The love our babies deserve 

Without conditions 

Don’t let them fool you

Your baby is not bad 

Needing to be punished

They are love

If you allow it

Littles need gentle guidance

Support learning expression

And if you guide them with hurt 

They will learn to hurt

Put down your hand

Forget the punishments

And just love

And your little will show you their light

It’s not our job to toughen our children up to face a cruel and heartless world. It’s our job to raise children who will make the world a little less cruel and heartless.

L R Knost

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The Nature Books You Need In Your Homeschooling Library

Whether distance/online schooling, home schooling, or unschooling a good home library is key to the learning process for any child. Every child can learn on their own with a good book, even if they’re not reading yet!

Findings published in the journal Social Science Research show that raising a child in a home filled with books positively impacts her future academic growth and job attainment.

https://www.scholastic.com/parents/books-and-reading/raise-a-reader-blog/study-finds-benefits-of-childs-home-library.html

These books, with beautiful images and lots of easily digestible information, will allow your young learner to grasp the science of nature in a more relatable and meaningful way.

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The Big Book of the Blue (The Big Book Series)


The Julia Rothman Natural Anatomy Book Set

Curious Kids Nature Guide: Explore the Amazing Outdoors of the Pacific Northwest (Books)

The Wonders of Nature

The Big Book of Bugs

Botanicum: Welcome to the Museum

The Big Book of Blooms

In The Garden

A Kid’s Herb Book: For Children of All Ages For Children of All Ages (Books)

Foraging with Kids: 52 Wild and Free Edibles to Enjoy With Your Children

The Magic and Mystery of Trees

The Tree Book for Kids and Their Grown-Ups

What are your favorite homeschooling or nature books?


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The Natural Mom’s Postpartum Healing and Recovery Essentials

Postpartum is a time of transition when your body is unfamiliar and the little human you’ve been growing is learning the outside world and how to communicate. Everyone is tired. Everyone is messy. There’s beautiful, blissful moments and heart wrenching, dreadful moments. With so much to navigate and learn, it can make a huge difference to be prepared for this time of transition. With a little preparation, postpartum can (usually) be a time of healing and bonding rather than flat out chaos.

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Mess Control:

When my first child came along, the mess of postpartum was something I was not prepared for. I knew birth would be messy and I’d have to wear an adult diaper after. What I didn’t know is that the mess continues for quite some time in the form of bleeding, clotting, leaking breasts, spit up, diaper explosions, sweating, and all the fun mystery fluids. I quickly ran out of all the natural postpartum gear I thought I had stocked up on. Being a natural minded mama, I was left scrambling trying to quickly source non-toxic, low-waste solutions for this messy time. This list resembles how I stocked up for my second home birthed baby to avoid the postpartum chaos.

Pads

Adult Diapers

Rags & Burp Cloths

Tools for Healing:

  Having a home birth with my first, I had a supportive group of midwives to guide me and attended monthly childbirth classes. We discussed the process and what to expect regularly. Regardless of the support and education, there were things I just had no clue about, especially regarding the postpartum body. First off, I felt like I had been hit by a car after birth. Every muscle in my body ached and I couldn’t walk unassisted for a few days. To be fair, I had an unusually long labor, 75 hours, with around 7 hours of pushing, but I had no idea I would be so physically exhausted and aching after birth. I knew birth was hard and would be painful in its own regard, but I didn’t realize the residual pain it would cause, and not just in my nether regions. Pregnancy and birth completely changed my body. With time and a few key supports, my body began feeling it’s new normal and everything healed wonderfully.

Peri Bottle

Herbs (Find my favorites here)

Essential Oils

Epsom Salt

Teas (Find my favorites here)

Massager

Earth Mama Herbal Balms

Breastfeeding:

Nursing Tops

Comfy Nursing Bras

Booby Tubes®

Breast Pads

Organic Nipple Butter (Hot & cold pack for breastfeeding)

For Fun & Memories:

Camera

My First Year Book


What have you found essential for Postpartum?

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Natural remedies for fourth trimester postpartum wellness

The Peaceful and Intentional Mom Challenge

15 Days To Intentional Parenting

Motherhood is challenging. I’ll keep saying it on repeat because I never want to mislead anyone. Motherhood will push you in every way; testing your patience, your ability to communicate, your expectations, your plans, and well, EVERYTHING. Motherhood changes everything. That is okay, and even great, if you allow it to be. Motherhood can teach you how to be more peaceful and intentional. I know, it’s contradictory. Motherhood can make you lose every last bit of your sanity but it can also push you to find and hold tight to your inner peace. You’ll quickly learn, without intentionality, motherhood is utter chaos. Don’t confuse being intentional with being planned or organized. I by no means am discussing being more organized, having a sparkling home, following a long written-out schedule or any of those more surface level ways of honing motherhood. I am, however, discussing planning your thoughts, your reactions, and your way of being with your children. When I discuss intentional motherhood, I mean planning the mother you want to be and putting into action your desired qualities rather than living moment to moment trying to respond to each issue on the fly. Becoming an intentional mother means deciding who you want to be as a mother and making it happen. It DOES require planning, but don’t worry, you can put your schedule away. This kind of planning requires deep reflection, personal assessment, and really getting to know who you are and who your children are. 

“The key is not to prioritize your schedule but to schedule your priorities.” Steven Covey

The goal of this challenge is to start chipping away at thriving as a mother: Stop kicking into survival mode and actually start being the mother you want to be. Don’t worry. This is a judgement free zone. I, by no means, have it all figured out. I’m in survival mode much more than I want to be, which is why I decided to make this challenge. I know I’m not alone. I know there are so many of us who just want to catch our breath and start being the mom we always intended to be. I’ve started down the road of intentional motherhood and wanted to help you get started as well. I know you’re busy, so daily practices to become more intentional will never ask for more than 30 minutes of your time.

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“An unintentional life accepts everything and does nothing. An intentional life embraces only the things that will add to the mission of significance.” John C Maxwell

Day 1:

10 Minute Journal Session- Jot down notes on the mother you want to be. Note any fictional mothers who have inspired you or characteristics of mothers you want to embody. If you’re feeling extra inspired, include a photo of some motherly inspirations.

Make a list of 5 affirmations you want to use daily to embody the characteristics you want to hone as a mother.

Day 2: 

Here are my affirmations for inspiration-

  1. I can access my abundant inner peace whenever I need.
  2. Patience comes easily to me.
  3. I find joy in the chaos of motherhood.
  4. My actions are aligned with my values.
  5. I am a magnet for peace and positive energy.
Buddhist Gifts

Day 3:

10 Minute Journal Session- Define peace. What does peace look like to you? How do you enact peace as a mother?

Day 4: 

Make a list of daily priorities (be realistic or it won’t help). Where does bonding with your child fall? Where does self care fall on your list? Can you rewrite the list to be more aligned with your values?

Day 5:

10 Minute Journal Session- What are your intentions as a mother? What qualities and values do you want your children to have? How do you or how can you role model these qualities and values?

Day 6:

List 5 Goals You Want To Accomplish As A Mother

Define each goal clearly and how you can accomplish the goal. Post your 5 Goals somewhere you will see them daily.

Day 7:

10 Minute Journal Session- What makes you feel like a “bad” mother? What are the parenting characteristics you want to change in yourself?

Day 8:

Revisit your affirmations- Have you been saying them daily? Are there any you want to change or add? Are any particularly helpful?

Day 9:

10 Minute Journal Session- What would a perfect day look like as a mother? What could you do to make each day more similar to your perfect day?

Day 10:

List and put into action 3 ways to bond with your child today. Try to make a list for each of your children.

My ways to bond list:

  1. Read books together
  2. Go on a walk without using any technology (i.e. don’t take pictures or talk on the phone)
  3. Have a dance party
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Day 11:

10 Minute Journal Session- Reflect on bonding plans. What worked? What didn’t work? What could you do differently next time?

Day 12: 

Be vulnerable. Talk with your significant other and/or your kids about the kind of mother you want to be. Get their feedback on how you could be more aligned with your parenting goals.

Day 13:

10 Minute Journal Session- When is it hardest to be intentional and parent how you intended? What can you change about the environment and your actions to make these times less common?

Day 14:

Focus on one parenting goal. Reflect on how you can accomplish that goal today. Write yourself a list of tips and reminders and leave them in a noticeable place that will help you stay on track throughout the day.

Day 15:

10 Minute Journal Session- What have you learned about your parenting? Would you adjust your parenting goals? What are ways you can continue to be a more intentional parent?

“Be the change you want to see in the world.” Mahatma Gandhi

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The Best Books To Read for Postpartum Wellness and Recovery

Postpartum seems to be one of the most neglected subjects when preparing a new mom for the transition to motherhood. It seems everyone wants to focus on pregnancy, birth, and mostly, the baby. However, one of the biggest impacts on mom and baby is mom’s wellness during postpartum. Finding great resources to make sure you are properly supporting yourself and advocating for yourself is one of the best ways to prepare for the postpartum period.

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Something is missing in modern motherhood.
So many of us feel so lost bringing our babies home- shaken by the exhaustion and loneliness and everyone asking about the baby with no concern of mama.
Motherhood has been lost
• We no longer live as a community so our experience of mothering only comes from our own mothers •
As communities, motherhood was integrated and learning to mother was passed down with ease, even if your own mother hadn’t had the best skills
Now, we no longer have the opportunities to learn so when our babies come home, we are so lost. We feel like failures.
We check out or flail around looking for answers and attempting to learn.
But we are not failures – the lack of community has failed us.
You are not at fault mama.
Build your community, find the support, and connect.
Connect with your baby, connect with yourself, and connect with other mamas and watch your sense of failure, desperation, and lack of direction dissipate.

Book Suggestions

Healing Your Body Naturally After Childbirth: The New Mom’s Guide to Navigating the Fourth Trimester

When you hear the term fourth trimester, you think of the baby’s development, however it’s also applicapable to mom’s transition and healing. This book is all about making the fourth trimester a time of growth and healing by giving natural tips and recipes to deal with the physical and emotional difficulties that can arise after giving birth as well as breastfeeding support.

Mother Matters: a Holistic Guide to Being a Happy, Healthy Mom. Dayna Kurtz

Mother Matters is a valuable resource for self care and wellness while caring for a newborn and facing the challenges of postpartum. Coining the term “mother care” shifts the focus of postpartum to caring for the mother and creating a more secure sense of wellness. The book discusses how to use different methods such as accupressure, art therapy, physical activity, and other alternatives to reclaim your wellness and sense of self. You can learn more about the author and the book on her podcast here!

Mothering the New Mother: Your Postpartum Resource Companion. Sally Placksin

Mother the New Mother is a great resource for planning what you can expect during postpartum based on research and other’s experiences. The book is also a helpful resource on where and how to get help, checklists for preparation, facing going back to work, and self care options during postpartum.

After your baby arrives, you yourself may feel like something of a present, albeit clumsy, wrapped in unmatched ribbons and bows, but new. Untried. Untested

Sally Placksin

This Isn’t What I Expected [2nd edition]: Overcoming Postpartum Depression

This book is all about recognizing and coping with postpartum depression. Although you may think this book won’t be helpful to you, 1 in 7 women deal with postpartum depression and up to 8 in 10 experience the baby blues. This book addresses how to get the support you need, self help methods, and cope with the day to day aspects of mothering while dealing with postpartum depression or other mood disorders that may arise during postpartum.

More Helpful Books On Postpartum

Here are a few more incredible books on natural recovery during postpartum. Each provides encouragement and easy tips to help you in your natural motherhood journey.

Natural Health after Birth: the Complete Guide to Postpartum Wellness

Strong As a Mother: How to Stay Healthy, Happy, and (Most Importantly) Sane from Pregnancy to Parenthood

Mama Natural

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How Gardening Makes You A Better Mother

Parenting Lessons I Learned From My Garden

Gardening makes you a better mother or parent. Not because you’re “being more productive” or “more natural” but because you can learn a lifetime worth of lessons in one garden season. If you allow it, the garden can help you grow and evolve. Gardening has taught me many lessons in such a short time. My garden has forced me to hone skills and qualities I’ve tried many times to master as well as qualities I’ve never utilized. From the natural process of growing a garden and the environmental challenges, such as deer devouring my garden, the following are a few of the skills and lessons this garden season has forced me to practice.

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Effort Makes All The Difference

A seed cannot grow if you never plant it: in gardening and parenting. If you don’t put forth the effort, you can’t get what you desire. If you want Zucchini, you need to plant Zucchini seeds. If you want a child who lives with kindness you must show and teach kindness. We have to put in the effort to get the beauty & bounty; whether that be a thriving and healthy garden or child. 

“Remember that children, marriages, and flower gardens reflect the kind of care they get.”

— H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

Growth Takes Time

It takes time to see the growth from your efforts. A sunflower doesn’t bloom the day after you plant the seed. It takes time.

“A garden requires patient labor and attention. Plants do not grow merely to satisfy ambitions or to fulfill good intentions. They thrive because someone expended effort on them.”

— Liberty Hyde Bailey

Patience

As the garden takes time to give back for the effort you’ve put in, it teaches you patience. Instant gratification doesn’t exist in the garden. We find instant gratification with most things in modern society, which leaves us inept with patience and therefore unprepared for parenthood. With gardening and parenting, we learn even with love and effort, we won’t immediately get what we desire.

“Everything that slows us down and forces patience, everything that sets us back into the slow circles of nature, is a help. Gardening is an instrument of grace.”

— May Sarton

Peace & Contentment

The garden, with all it’s beauty and calmness, teaches peace & contentment. Something about it’s beauty feeds the soul and shows you the way to your inner peace.

Lessons From The Garden

The Importance of Having A Relationship With Dirt

Gardening will show you how important it is to have a relationship with dirt. As a parent, this is an important lesson. Your child will crave to play in the dirt and for their health and wellness, it’s important you allow them to do so and even encourage them.

“In the spring, at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt.”

–Margaret Atwood

The Undesirable Will Happen (and that’s ok)

The garden will never go exactly as planned; neither will parenting. The garden will show you that no matter how astray things may go, with commitment and love, it will still be beautiful. Flowers will blossom and fruit will form. 

“A flower falls, even though we love it; and a weed grows, even though we do not love it.”

-Dogen

These are all beautiful and necessary lessons to hone for motherhood and a garden is a wonderful and forgiving place to learn such lessons.

What have you learned or hope to learn from your garden?

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What You Need To Read Before Homeschooling Your Child

Whether you’ve always planned to homeschool your child or have newly decided to homeschool due to changes from Corona Virus, homeschooling is a consequential and life-changing endeavor for the parents and child(ren). It’s important to be informed and change your view from mass schooling and typical education to individualized and personal learning. Public school is intended to easily educate a mass of people, so when you choose to homeschool, it does not make sense to follow the typical teaching and learning methods used in the education system. In order for you, as an educator & guide, and your child to thrive in homeschooling, it is necessary to learn the research behind natural, child-centered learning. This list of books will give you more than enough information to become an expert (and happy) guide in your child’s home learning process.

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Unschooled by Kerry McDonald

If you read just one of these books, make it this one. This is a research and experience filled book that reveals the importance of taking an alternative approach to education that allows children to learn according to their own interests as well as how to support and optimize that learning process.

Passion-Driven Education by Connor Boyack

One of the reviews I read for this book talks about how it broke the mom’s heart that she didn’t read it before homeschooling because she felt she wasted years not igniting her children’s passion for education. A must read before homeschooling in order to change your approach and get your child(ren) engaged and passionate about what they’re learning.

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Brave Learner by Julie Bogart

Written by a mother who homeschooled her own children, this book teaches parents how to make homeschooling a part of daily life rather than forced and scheduled curriculum. It invites parents to live curiously and role model for their children how to learn by exploring interests and adventures. It provides practical and applicable ways to make homeschooling easy and effective.

Free To Learn Peter Gray

A developmental psychologist discusses the importance of shifting learning away from structured and forced schooling to children pursuing their own interests through play to become passionate and curious learners.

Balanced and Barefoot by Angela Hanscom

Learn the importance of unrestricted outdoor play on your child’s health and development. The book also provides helpful strategies on helping your child thrive regardless of where you live.

How To Raise A Wild Child by Scott Sampson

A research filled informative book on why and how to get your child interested and engaged in being in nature and outdoor learning.

“The best education does not happen at a desk, but rather engaged in everyday living – hands on, exploring, in active relationship with life.” ~ Vince Gowman

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